First off a super powers at a "God's" level has no need to reproduce. Therefore a sex reference (him) would not be a factor. I think we get the human charteristics from the families of Greek Gods. But if "he" makes your life complete good for you.
When all hope is exhausted all we have left is our God fantasies, which is far far better than nothing I suppose.
And of course the Christian religion is one of the most absurd religions of all. Can you imagine a loving father torturing his son for some crap that a bunch of kids down the block did, Really, thinnk about it.